I declare myself a good kisser.
Muack muack muack muack muack….
Why? Ahh… read on to find out more…
Anyway, let me digress first… I LOVE CAR RIDES. I do! I think i’ve always loved car rides since i was a little girl. Daddy would bring us out, and we would just drive along… sometimes to a really ulu place in Singapore and explore… from the Kent Ridge parks, to Sembawang, to Upper Bukit Timah, Yio Chu Kang…. or just short car trips… I would look out the window, and watch the world pass me by. And i would see people go about in their daily lives. Then i imagine myself, in their shoes at that very moment. And not forgetting, seeing all the interesting sights and sounds along the way.
And noticed, i said, I love car rides, where someone else is driving… NOT me… haha… that means, i need to find someone to drive me around! Haha… i know, i’m spoiled! Haha… And hehe, my guy can drive! Yay! Just that we need a car to really go gallivanting… But yes, there is a reason why i like someone to drive… cos i realise that its on these trips that i think alot. Think about my life, whats going on, and yah, just pure meditation.
And i love it.
It can be so relaxing. Thinking away… haha, you can call it day-dreaming, but i beg to defer… i think it can be good for the soul. Helps me keep in touch with the serious side of me.
Anyway, i thought about several things today. Some really nonsensical. Some serious and really thought-provoking.
One of the nonsense ones- Gosh, i got several friends who are married! I mean, look at me. I’m almost 21. So are my friends, they are 21 this year. And they have decided to settle down. Not the ‘friendster-married’ kinda couple.
BUT a real REAL REAL married couple.
I mean, there are so many of us who play ard with the status thingy in friendster. Haha… since we are soooo in love with the guy/gal we are with, we become ‘Married’ status. But in actual fact, we are just ‘In a r/s’.
These friends of mine, made the choice to marry the man that they will go through the rest of their lives with. Have a couple of kids, buy a car, buy a house, grow old with all the wrinkles and dentures. Gosh. I admire them for taking this step. This step which i feel is HUGE.
I am not saying that i have a commitment -phobia. I don’t! I’m very happily attached now. My guy is one of the sweetest fellows ard. He surprises me every once in a while with really amazing stuff, spoils me ever so often and somehow, under all the playing/bullying/”tension-creating” sessions, he understands me deeply and makes me wanna be a better person. Haha… hmm, and i wouldn’t mind marryin’ him!!!
But yes, come on, come on… i’m only a 20-going-to-be-21 student studying in NTU. Marriage? Gosh, i’m still worrying about my grades, about trying to get into MPE, about how i can catch up after completing my ‘dabao’-ed modules. And not forgeting, i’m not even financially independent… i’m still so dependent on dear daddy to give me pocket money. So, i really admire my friends who are willing to take the next big step.
Can you imagine? Every single thing they do, they have to consider about their spouses. And they need to plan about everything together. Be together in sickness, and in health, in good times and bad, till death do they part.
I guess, i feel that it takes a level of maturity to accept and be ready to marry someone. And well, i can safely conclude for myself… nope… not yet. I’m still such a baby. A big big baby. Still need a lot more maturity to reach THAT level. But yes, at the end of the day, i would say, “Yes, i wanna get married.”
I’m not the kind who would live my life a bachlorette till the end time. I realise, i need the companionship. The guy cum supporting pillar in my life. Yes, i am an independent girl but still, i need a man… i’m not the ultra independent type.
Oh well, so much for that thought of mine.
Having guests over at my place later. My dad’s colleagues. And we went shopping for some fruits. And we ended up at Pasir Panjang Wholesale centre. Saw lotsa lotsa fruits at cheap cheap prices… saw super strawberries which i’ll be getting for my birthday party and lotsa veggies too… lotsa greenery… hehe…
Somehow, we seem to be in a market-mode today. Cos later on, we went to chinatown to grab some egg tarts and chicken pies and we went to the market to visit my grandpa. My maternal granddad still sells fish and seafood at the market. He’s like really old, but i guess, it keeps him occupied and he enjoys doing it.
Took photos along the way…

Look at all the greenery…

Lotsa lotsa veggies……… i think a goat would be happy seeing all these.

Fish and squid at grandpa’s store in Chinatown…

I had a fishy-good time taking these pics…
Now…
Why did i declare myself a good kisser?
Well, daddy bought a whole carton of cherries… 9 kg full of cherries. Yummy!

And you know what people say about being able to tie a knot with the cherry stem by just using your tongue… well, if you can do it, you are deemed a good kisser!
And after struggling with the cherry stem for a short while………………..

I DID IT!!!!!!!

Its not easy! BUT I DID IT!!!!
Yay!!! I’m a GOOD KISSER!!!! Muahahahahahaha………………..
Haha….
But then again…
who can judge me but my significant other??? Haha… Its up to him to decide on whether i’m good, isn’t it?
Hai~~~
So much for my cheap thrills again…. =)